Caregiving from 1,000 Miles Away: The Adult Child's Playbook for Managing Aging Parents Remotely

Your parent is hundreds of miles away. You love them. You worry about them. And you are trying to figure out how to be a good son or daughter — a real caregiver — without the ability to simply be there.Caregiving from 1,000 Miles Away is the complete, practical, emotionally honest guide that long-distance caregivers have been looking for: a real playbook for managing aging parents remotely, from the first recognition that something needs to change through the assembly of a care team, the navigation of medical and legal systems, the handling of emergencies and sibling dynamics, the housing decisions, and the care of yourself along the way.Written by Sarah Mitchell, this book addresses the specific, practical challenges that no generic elder care guide covers adequately: How do you know what is actually happening when your parent says everything is fine? How do you build a reliable local care team from a distance? What technology actually helps and what is just noise? How do you navigate the medical system, the legal documents, the financial picture, and the housing decisions without flying home every time something needs addressing? How do you manage siblings who are not contributing their share? How do you have the conversations that have to happen before it is too late?Whether you are a long-distance caregiver just beginning to recognize that something needs to change, someone already in the middle of the crisis, or someone who wants to prepare before the difficult moments arrive, this book provides the framework, the tools, and the honest guidance you need. Including how to actually take care of yourself in the middle of all of it. Read more